we pay the cost, i pay a monthly fee (see my original post) to the club. i also pay for the boots, transport, setting up for matches. We've also done sponsored bike rides off out own backs to pay for the additional extras for the whole TEAM (again, see my original post). All monies raised is shared between the team as there are less well off kids in the team that can't afford new boots, parents who can't travel to fixtures - can't even afford water bottles. IS this the parents fault? maybe. the kids fault ? no. At the end of the season, hopefully we have enough for a exciting weekend break away over the summer holidays. The money pays THEIR costs and parents again stump up the rest themselves.
Money raised thru the year pays for the extras bits like a christmas party (we're taking them ice skating), gives them confidence and pulls them so much closer knowing they're working for a greater good for their team and friends. This is a bad thing in your opinion? It teaches them life skills, sacrifice, all sorts.
Calling them 'beggers' is the most narrow-minded pathetic excuse for not giving them money. Well done you. All u have to say is "no, i'm ok, my carer packs my bags" and i'm sure they'd leave you alone and you wouldn't have to contribue