I have both consoles both have there good and bad points. My 360 is not flashed so for me that does not come into it. Most games get released cross platform and they play the same on both consoles. Personally for me it's the PS3 (can write my name in the dust gathered on my 360). Last straw for me was the dash, can't stand it, if i wanted a avator I can play on my WII, they should have left it alone or at least given a choice. Although the PS3 got off to a slow start everything is progressing quite nicely now, and the introduction of HOME leaves the dash and the avators standing. The 360 is good but what else is there?? PS3 however is just beginning, and unlike the 360 you don't need to buy SONY branded headsets or hardrives or Wireless adaptors (PS3 has it built in) any laptop hardrive, USB keyboard bluetooth headset will work.
P.S and they don't charge for the priviledge of online gaming.
P.S.S and all these exclusives to look forward to::
* Infamous
* Killzone 2
* God of War 3
* Ratchet and Clank
* Gran Turismo 5
* Yakuza 3
* Trico
* Uncharted 2
* Jak 4
* Heavy Rain
* White Knight Chronicles
* Final Fantasy XIII Versus
* Demons Soul
* MAG
* Wardevil
* Twisted Metal