I found this extract from a dying mans journal...Think he talks a lot of sense.
http://hudds53.wordpress.com/2006/12/09/dying-mans-daily-journal-7/
"We have become at least nervous or cautious talking to people in general. We are afraid of saying something politically incorrect. We are nervious that through even an innocent comment on our part we may offend someone., be it through their race, color , religion or what ever. About 99% of the people in the world are just nice ordinary people meaning and intending no harm to anyone. Lets all just take a big breath and relax and give people the benefit of the doubt. No one, well certainly not me anyway, is an expert on all religions and cultures. I may say inadvertantly say something that may be deemed offensive based on someone else’s beliefs, culture or what ever. Give me the benefit of the doubt, I meant nothing derogatory, just as I am sure comments made by the remainder of that 99% of the world are innocent with no harm intended. Lets all just relax and not take every thing so personally.
If some idiot that is included in the 1% (the1% that really are idiots) does make an offensive comment, he is the one with the problem, not you. It only becomes your problem if you let it.
We have taken this so far it has even limited our ability to laugh. We miss out on laughter because people are afraid to tell jokes. Now, I agree there are many jokes that are way over the edge and should never be told. Lets take ethnic jokes (again within the bounds of reason) many are funny, I laugh at the joke not the people. I have heard tons of Irish jokes, I am part Irish, I laugh at a good joke. I don’t take offence that someone is putting me down or the Irish as a people. They are telling a joke, intended to be funny not offensive. It is only offensive if I take it that way, and that way is usually not the way it was intended.
This site is intended as a serious one. I discuss a very serious topic. Today, I just want to lighten it up. I challenge everyone, hit me with your best joke. I will give you the ammo you need to hit me good hard and funny.
I am dying (go ahead and joke about it I won’t be offended), I am follically challenged (severely balding), I am to short for my weight, I am 5′ 10″ and for my weight I should be about 6′3″,( over over weight), I am Irish, I am male and I am Protestant. Now surely that is enough to come up with some good ones. Hit me with your best ones."