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OK little rant so here goes.
My one daughter (twins that are sooooooo different its unreal) has been causing trouble over last few months and now i have had enough. She isn't a naughty kid really and i know there are worse out there but she is getting worse.
Over last few months she has been getting in to trouble with the teachers for using her phone in school and silly things like that and also being cheeky to her mom (we not together anymore but still have a strong/close relationship and back each other up). The other month her mom took her phone off her and and read through her texs and found out she had a couple of drinks at a party and wasn't happy to say the least. We let the kids drink a small amount of alcohol if were having a party but she was worried at how much she had been drinking. After a long chat we ironed out all the worries and concerns after hearing a few things her mom didnt want to hear but the air was cleared and everything has been ok for a month or so.
On Friday a teacher told her to put her blazer on as she was leaving school and walking home but she didn't as it was 27 degrees outside and i agree with her it was to hot to wear a blazer. She then had her phone taken off her as she was caught twice using it in school and they have been told that they are not allowed to use their phone at school at anytime and for her to get it back a parent would have to collect it. I spoke to her and the school concerning this and everything was sorted until this morning. I went to the school to collect the phone and my daughter asked if she could have it back, so i rang her mom to see her thoughts while i was on the phone she decided to snatch it off me and delete messages on the phone. She would not hand it over until i forced it out of her hands and dragged her outside to have a real go at her.
No i have told her she is not having her phone back at all as she has no respect and will now start suffering as i am now dishing out the punishment. Since getting home I have changed her passwords on facebook an her MSN account and also de-activated her facebook account. Don't think she will be happy when she finds out but i think its time she realized how much space she gets and she will get things back once she gets rid of the attitude. The next thing she will lose is her new paper round if she carries on.
Thanks feel better now
Question for ya to think about and reply to if ya want:
A child has a phone at school and the teacher takes it off them as its the schools policy for them not to be used. Could this be classed as robbery as its the child's property and they are not really allowing the teacher to have it they are taking it off them?
Now i have different thoughts on it but wondered what others thought.
Thanks
Ray
My one daughter (twins that are sooooooo different its unreal) has been causing trouble over last few months and now i have had enough. She isn't a naughty kid really and i know there are worse out there but she is getting worse.
Over last few months she has been getting in to trouble with the teachers for using her phone in school and silly things like that and also being cheeky to her mom (we not together anymore but still have a strong/close relationship and back each other up). The other month her mom took her phone off her and and read through her texs and found out she had a couple of drinks at a party and wasn't happy to say the least. We let the kids drink a small amount of alcohol if were having a party but she was worried at how much she had been drinking. After a long chat we ironed out all the worries and concerns after hearing a few things her mom didnt want to hear but the air was cleared and everything has been ok for a month or so.
On Friday a teacher told her to put her blazer on as she was leaving school and walking home but she didn't as it was 27 degrees outside and i agree with her it was to hot to wear a blazer. She then had her phone taken off her as she was caught twice using it in school and they have been told that they are not allowed to use their phone at school at anytime and for her to get it back a parent would have to collect it. I spoke to her and the school concerning this and everything was sorted until this morning. I went to the school to collect the phone and my daughter asked if she could have it back, so i rang her mom to see her thoughts while i was on the phone she decided to snatch it off me and delete messages on the phone. She would not hand it over until i forced it out of her hands and dragged her outside to have a real go at her.
No i have told her she is not having her phone back at all as she has no respect and will now start suffering as i am now dishing out the punishment. Since getting home I have changed her passwords on facebook an her MSN account and also de-activated her facebook account. Don't think she will be happy when she finds out but i think its time she realized how much space she gets and she will get things back once she gets rid of the attitude. The next thing she will lose is her new paper round if she carries on.
Thanks feel better now
Question for ya to think about and reply to if ya want:
A child has a phone at school and the teacher takes it off them as its the schools policy for them not to be used. Could this be classed as robbery as its the child's property and they are not really allowing the teacher to have it they are taking it off them?
Now i have different thoughts on it but wondered what others thought.
Thanks
Ray