i've been with this girl for about 3 years and we have a cracking little boy of about 18months. i have no idea how he happened but i love him so much. As a family we are great, shes a wonderful mother and a great girlfriend. i could go on all day listing her positive qualities but theyre all beside the point -we dont have sex! thats not entirely true.. we had some last night because i had forgotten how god awful she is at it. my previous relationship was just sex, she had the most abysmal personality but we were at it constantly- it was wonderful! 3-6 portions of mind blowing sex daily. now i have a girl who's plenty keen (not that keen tho) but for the love of god she cant f*ck. she cant do a thing right, blowjobs hurt and sex is so pointless that I DONT WANT IT????. she started doing the pelvic floor excercises but it hasnt helped at all. I am so torn and confused, i dont want to break up our family but i can seem to teach her the basics and i dont have a convenient f*ck buddy. I cant bear to measure my sex life in annual dissapointing attempts, and i hate the idea of being a cheat.
what the hell can i do?
what the hell can i do?