FEAR: you said,
hacking wi-fi is easy but once you have gained access to the network you cant just view the desktops of other machines on the network,
to do this you would need to hack that particular machine, bypassing antivirus and firewall then install a remote admin tool.
it would be easy if the administrator account on the target machine had no password and had terminal services running but thats highly unlikely these days
By using Netstumber and Ethereal, in combination, you can actually SEE THE INDIVIDUAL packets, in plain text, that are being transmitted around your LAN, this INCLUDES passwords, etc. AND SO CAN MATEY IN THE CAR OUTSIDE....
Sorry but YOU CAN AND DO gain access to other machines on the network, any HDD that is set to be a network share is compromised. We set up drives for (say) music to be accessable from within our network, and a WiFi intruder IS INSIDE your network. WiFi access is the "inside" (LAN side) of the router - and XP desktop firewalls usuall allow any of your local IP (eg 192.168...) addresses to have free access.
And,anti-virus is not part of this picture at all.
Firewalls won't help as the hacker who is accessing your network via WiFi is ON YOUR NETWORK and your network devices thinks that he/she is a local machine rather than somebody sitting in a car (or next door) who is using your bandwidth.
Irrespective of other devices on your network, the intruder can just access the router / wap and go straight to the Internet/WAN and download whatever they want.
Your passwords and personal data are at risk, how many of us do internet banking, pay with a credit card - most if not all of this info is in a folder somewhere in your network....
Picture this scenario:
Matey parks up near your house, fires up a laptop and connects to the internet through your router.
Matey then starts up BitComet and starts to download the entire collection of Elvis - (a big download).
He slips the laptop under the seat and goes off to work in his car-sharing scheme. The laptop will download all day - hogging your bandwidth.
Your ISP gets a call from the copyright people and are shown evidence that your IP has downloaded megabucks of music from P2P sites.
Or worse, how about dodgy sex-sites ?
You will be blamed for whatever happens....
You can't explain, you are toast...