Jooooles
DW Regular +
So Ive recently been put on a 1 to 1 anger course through probation and I have to admit the worker is hitting a few nervous pushing buttons in the right places.
She say,s she can tell by being in my presence I'm not a relaxed person and have anxiety problems when personal questions are asked ?
Yeh right I'm just a private person (I thought) She got my back up in two minutes and said she done it on purpose to see If I would respond.
Anyway she say,s I have so many previous convictions, because I cant handle confrontation, and have a complex about what people think about myself, HUH who doesn't.
Anyway she has suggested a new diet no white bread increased exercise better food spend more time outdoors with nature work etc.
But no medication as she says anger control can be self taught ? yeh right I'm a middle aged bloke ? OK cut the alcohol as-well she suggested, as she says your covering up your feeling of anxiety and it increases anger "I cut it in half last year" I will be on kaliber soon.
But I have decided If I am going to stop my anger fighting getting arrested etc etc I have to try sommick after all what is one year of my life if its going to have a positive affect on the rest of it.
So there,s my kind of rant mixed with a new years resolution so can anybody recommend a good book Beating alcohol anxiety sex addiction and anger changing your ways etc etc would be good. I'm certainly not going to take any medication and she agreed It could be bad for me.
So anybody had a SIMULA problem are can recommend a good book Id be pleased
cheers peoples for any input maybe I could go mackem bashing at the weekends
loose some stress lol :BLOBBY:
She say,s she can tell by being in my presence I'm not a relaxed person and have anxiety problems when personal questions are asked ?
Yeh right I'm just a private person (I thought) She got my back up in two minutes and said she done it on purpose to see If I would respond.
Anyway she say,s I have so many previous convictions, because I cant handle confrontation, and have a complex about what people think about myself, HUH who doesn't.
Anyway she has suggested a new diet no white bread increased exercise better food spend more time outdoors with nature work etc.
But no medication as she says anger control can be self taught ? yeh right I'm a middle aged bloke ? OK cut the alcohol as-well she suggested, as she says your covering up your feeling of anxiety and it increases anger "I cut it in half last year" I will be on kaliber soon.
But I have decided If I am going to stop my anger fighting getting arrested etc etc I have to try sommick after all what is one year of my life if its going to have a positive affect on the rest of it.
So there,s my kind of rant mixed with a new years resolution so can anybody recommend a good book Beating alcohol anxiety sex addiction and anger changing your ways etc etc would be good. I'm certainly not going to take any medication and she agreed It could be bad for me.
So anybody had a SIMULA problem are can recommend a good book Id be pleased
cheers peoples for any input maybe I could go mackem bashing at the weekends
loose some stress lol :BLOBBY: