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We have 4 at home - youngest 4 and the oldest 10 - we live on a quiet cul-de-sac so no through traffic and good neighbours that keep an eye out for each other but the 2 youngest 4 and 5 - are in by 7 on a summer school night - when it goes dark in the winter!! Unless we are out they are always in bed by 7.
The oldest has to go to bed at 9 so she can come in by about 8.45 but she normally comes in a bit earlier to have her grown up time watching the soaps before bed!!
The middle one is the only boy and hes 7 - bed by 7.30 but he gets to stay out till about 7 in summer!!.
If we are sitting out with neighbours we might let them be out with us until perhaps 9 at the weekends!!
As for telly in their rooms we went through a few years of letting them fall asleep with tellys on or portable dvds in bed but it was getting out of hand - they just wouldnt sleep !!
Last September we made a new rule that they could only watch tv in bed at the weekends - except the 4 year old as shes only at nursery but come September she will lose the tv on a school night too!!!
Our 7 year old was struggling at school and at the first parents evening after September his teacher actually asked us what had changed with him as he was so much improved at school . His reading and maths were vastly improved!!!
The oldest has to go to bed at 9 so she can come in by about 8.45 but she normally comes in a bit earlier to have her grown up time watching the soaps before bed!!
The middle one is the only boy and hes 7 - bed by 7.30 but he gets to stay out till about 7 in summer!!.
If we are sitting out with neighbours we might let them be out with us until perhaps 9 at the weekends!!
As for telly in their rooms we went through a few years of letting them fall asleep with tellys on or portable dvds in bed but it was getting out of hand - they just wouldnt sleep !!
Last September we made a new rule that they could only watch tv in bed at the weekends - except the 4 year old as shes only at nursery but come September she will lose the tv on a school night too!!!
Our 7 year old was struggling at school and at the first parents evening after September his teacher actually asked us what had changed with him as he was so much improved at school . His reading and maths were vastly improved!!!