Be really interested to see how you get on yottabit. I am a Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming, similar to CBT. Its my belief that many of the treatments actually mask the problem rather than deal with it. As Wizbitt77 says, these problems are usually linked to an event in the past - most phobias,for instance, start during the ages of 0 - 7 when we absord everything like a sponge but don't have enough life experiences to put things into context. What is really frightening at 6 would probably be a non issue if it happened for the first time when we were 22. After a bad experience in early life, we then look for the next experience to be the same and we end up chaining a negative emotion to an event. It is reasonable easy to resolve the issue using Time Line Therapy or some other regression technique. I have had some good success with clients and have resolved fear of flying and low self esteem issues by getting to the root cause. Would be interested to hear other peoples views and if I can help anyone with some general advice I'm happy to help.