countryboy
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has anyone ever done this . I'm having to do this for a family memember and really the advice I've had so far is confusing
Should have said their only familyNo mate lol . It's when you take over the care of a child . We are there only family so it's us or the children go into the care system and I could allow that
Mate . They just brought the children down asked us to sign for them like they were delivering a tv . Stayed 20 mins said we will be back in 2 weeks . The kids came with basically the clothes on their backs .they didn't ask did we have beds for them to sleep in or could we afford to buy them . They took a look around and left . I'm not complaining about taking the kids but a little help to settle them in would have been better . 2 months later we have seen social services once .Surely to feck in this day and age social services would be able to advice you on this? and help you come to the best solution for all parties.
Sorry mate I should have made it clearerIt's called fostering where I'm from, would never have got it, lol.
Mate . They just brought the children down asked us to sign for them like they were delivering a tv . Stayed 20 mins said we will be back in 2 weeks . The kids came with basically the clothes on their backs .they didn't ask did we have beds for them to sleep in or could we afford to buy them . They took a look around and left . I'm not complaining about taking the kids but a little help to settle them in would have been better . 2 months later we have seen social services once .
Be great mate . The advice I've been given has been mixed and all from people who have never been through this . Shock to the system though 2 Wee nippers running around the house .fostering would have been an option but as you have signed to something not sure how that stands
but i may be able to get the advice you need
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