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I've got a feeling one or two of them might not be returning mate.

This has been one strange summer for DW.

A just logged on and a see a lot of names in neon pink.
Wtf happened tonight?
 
If only the rest of DW were imbibed like us torque! Get pissed, enjoy DW!
 
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Just my tuppenceworth.. whether it's heeded or not, and as a member, my thoughs are it might be putting a 'dark cloud' over the whole site.

It may/may not work out because of admin/mods/members personal differences, but, as(unless it's already been done, apologies), DRAW A LINE HERE for the sake of a good, supported site that is DW!

Good post m8, and well said.

Lost some good members over all this nonsense, how long for I don't know.

Having read a few, (much) of the offending posts, some posts were just down right wrong, (unless you tolerate racism) while others were pointless, and deliberately made to stir trouble. Things could have been handled much better, but it's been done now so no point crying over it, nobody will change their minds over it. Hopefully a few lessons will have been learned by all though.

I've had much support from this community, and I hope to see it return to that nature.

If it were me, I'd ban all religion and race talk, as some folks just look for trouble on that subject. I'd also activate the swear filter, and make it include the words related to the racism threads as well as standard offensive swear words. Mods life would get much easier. :)

Anyway, that's it from me on the whole sorry affair.
 
Having read like most people the 2 contentious post (yes those two) isn't it about time they were finished. Honestly some of the content is childish and some make a point ,but how many points must be made on the subject.
I am known (i think lol) for not liking real swear words/porn/rude pictures in the general forum ,(and i assure you im not a prude love a bit of naughties)so Admin created an adult forum, what's the issue .if you want to use/say /see/hear all the above then use that forum.
For me what i post (and yes i have made a mistake or two in that direction) i would be happy for my mum/younger sister/brother/kids to read it.
All its causing is bad blood between each other.
Sometimes mods are right sometime members are right ,but thats what being human is all about.
Please Please let the 2 threads close,let bygones be bygones,use the correct forum for the correct post/subject/word and lets get back to a happy forum.
Virmin is to blame a bit for this cos when we all needed help with funcards/au card/boxes everyone was ultra polite to get that help now thas gone so has friendship/manners etc.
Its a forum not a battlefield,war zone, its supposed to be friendly/fun/easy/hobby type thing.
soon mickie will have to open a medical section for all the injuries sustained.
If you don't like someone or what they say use the ignore button (here goes i will have 300045 people ignoring me now lol)
lets make friends again as this forum was set up to do.
end of rant ,sorry it was a long one and no i don't want in the rant forum thanks.
and if i offended anyone
tough lol

Nice post mate and i think your right but its a shame such long bans have been issued and its a shame the way it ended up and as a result its DW that looses out as they were good guys..

I would like to say that the admin and mods do a good job and its a job a wouldn't thank you for as its helluva tough.
Dw has been going for a long time and am sure a lot of you have seen so much change and also seen stuff like this before.

To run this site takes a helluva lot of work from guys dedicated in what they do for free and they must wonder why sometimes.lol
To be put on the spot and make a decision may sound easy but its not and mistakes can happen even if the decision is discussed.
A accept that people can't always make the right choice,, we are only human but its equally important how we deal with mistakes and to loose the guys that we lost in the way it happened was wrong..

Am not looking to argue with anyone as there has been enough here today already..
A just wanna say thanks to everyone who has helped me and to all the good guys (you know who you are).
Thanks to mods and admin and no hard feelings ehh..lol
Good luck and God bless....


Hoppy

PS

@ Cronus, Daz or whatever the fook your calling yourself now.
You just couldn't leave it alone could you!
You have never pm'd me before but when a try to say goodbye in decent manner your little troll instincts go into
overdrive and all of a sudden you grow a pair of nuts!
You are a coward keyboard warrior of the highest order and a sick wee man who needs help..
well done,you have done your part in helping good members get banned so you can sleep like a fu***** baby now..
Super Troll Daz or "STD",,your like a fu***** dose that wont go away but am sure you will get sussed out pretty soon.
Thats ma final word on it so say what you want ya vile little troll cause no one gives a shit about you...
Am very very drunk so if this gets deleted then fair enough but it would be a good example of this little troll being protected by censorship
if you do choose to delete it..

bye bye..
 
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Virmin is to blame a bit for this cos when we all needed help with funcards/au card/boxes everyone was ultra polite to get that help now thas gone so has friendship/manners etc.

What are you talking about blaming virmin ?

I can't see how they have any influence on the behaviour of members on here.
 
Having read like most people the 2 contentious post (yes those two) isn't it about time they were finished. Honestly some of the content is childish and some make a point ,but how many points must be made on the subject.
I am known (i think lol) for not liking real swear words/porn/rude pictures in the general forum ,(and i assure you im not a prude love a bit of naughties)so Admin created an adult forum, what's the issue .if you want to use/say /see/hear all the above then use that forum.
For me what i post (and yes i have made a mistake or two in that direction) i would be happy for my mum/younger sister/brother/kids to read it.
All its causing is bad blood between each other.
Sometimes mods are right sometime members are right ,but thats what being human is all about.
Please Please let the 2 threads close,let bygones be bygones,use the correct forum for the correct post/subject/word and lets get back to a happy forum.
Virmin is to blame a bit for this cos when we all needed help with funcards/au card/boxes everyone was ultra polite to get that help now thas gone so has friendship/manners etc.
Its a forum not a battlefield,war zone, its supposed to be friendly/fun/easy/hobby type thing.
soon mickie will have to open a medical section for all the injuries sustained.
If you don't like someone or what they say use the ignore button (here goes i will have 300045 people ignoring me now lol)
lets make friends again as this forum was set up to do.
end of rant ,sorry it was a long one and no i don't want in the rant forum thanks.
and if i offended anyone
tough lol

feck it gez your right , let me sign up for the lurve!
 
I've got a feeling one or two of them might not be returning mate.

you are more than likely right there witchy

the way I see it

this is the first time some of them have been singled out
gets blown out of all proportion
they get the huff and think "I'm never going back there" Fine!

all there years they have been here and had fun,all the years they have been here and got away with little things
they get told something they don't like and sulk,but forget or dont even realise things have been over looked

witchy you know better than anyone we don't hold grudges here,Jesus how many times you been banned ;) lol

if they don't return then thats up to them......
if they do return they will be welcomed back like all other banned members :)
 
I have been very disappointed over the last year or so because the friendlyness seems to have been overtaken by the bitching.

There are only 13 rules and I have always liked the fact that dw is pretty relaxed but this has been taken as a sign that anything goes and I am a believer that we need rules to draw the boundarys of what is and is not acceptable.

I have got carried away before and been banned for it, When I have been banned my 1st reaction was always that i'm never coming back but then I realise that I was out of line and come back and I behave myself.

If there were no rules then this would be a horrible place as anarchy rarely works.

Hopefully everyone will see this and come back, if they don't then the forum will carry on as it always does.

Mods and Admin have a thankless job I know I have been a mod here and wasn't cut out for it. I know from experience that no one is banned for long and if it is a long term ban that it is discussed in the mods room and voted on.
 
What are you talking about blaming virmin ?

I can't see how they have any influence on the behaviour of members on here.

twas meant as a light hearted joke mate, whilst we was doing cards etc we didnt have time to argue:doh:
 
Saw this happening when i read the post.
I try to keeps my opinions to self and under the firing line,however i goto agree with the mods and admin as far as it was a warning across the bows which all members would see and hopefully tow the line and it got blown out of all proportion.
I came here to hack things break thing and more recently be able to help a few peeps in the process.
I hope this doesnt blight the forum and more importantly start becoming a bitch fest to moan every day about what has happened.
I personally have no problem with any members who are in the pink.
there have been a few which i thought were close to the wind with there posts but thats what mods and admin are for.
I would like to see a little ban zone where you can see the sentence and reason though as it would maybe stop a lot of secondary posts!
cheers chronoman
 
Saw this happening when i read the post.
I try to keeps my opinions to self and under the firing line,however i goto agree with the mods and admin as far as it was a warning across the bows which all members would see and hopefully tow the line and it got blown out of all proportion.
I came here to hack things break thing and more recently be able to help a few peeps in the process.
I hope this doesnt blight the forum and more importantly start becoming a bitch fest to moan every day about what has happened.
I personally have no problem with any members who are in the pink.
there have been a few which i thought were close to the wind with there posts but thats what mods and admin are for.
I would like to see a little ban zone where you can see the sentence and reason though as it would maybe stop a lot of secondary posts!
cheers chronoman


I agree and think that is a bloody GREAT idea ..... :Clap:
 
twas meant as a light hearted joke mate, whilst we was doing cards etc we didnt have time to argue:doh:

You've a good point there gez, I was thinking the same thing myself only yesterday, N3 really fecked everything for us in as a hacking forum, we cant talk openly about CS ( rightly so ) so that didn't leave much to discuss and subsequently the members get bored and end up trolling the rags for non stories to post and for some it's the kind of crap that they feed off.

but the way long standing members where humiliated yesterday was absolutely appalling when a pm marking their cards then a post for all members to curb the swearing would have had a better effect than what transpired.

I've been getting a bit fed up myself of late with the benign posts on here and the way certain members are taking the forum, and before anyone tells me " if you dont like it, you know what you can do " it may very well be the time to move on.

cheers
 
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but the way long standing members where humiliated yesterday was absolutely appalling when a pm marking their cards then a post for all members to curb the swearing would have had a better effect than what transpired.

If they are long standing members then they know the rules surely.
When things are done in secret people complain and now when a different tactic is tried there are still complaints so it's damned if you do and damned if you don't :( .

I've been getting a bit fed up myself of late with the benign posts on here and the way certain members are taking the forum, and before anyone tells me " if you dont like it, you know what you can do " it may very well be the time to move on.

cheers

I think we all get fedup every so often but our diversity is what for me makes the forum great. I don't agree with everyone but thats what makes it interesting but I prefer heated debates to personnal attacks and swearing (not against swearing just not on here).

The problem is when you meet face to face you have body language etc to see if your upsetting people, on here things can easily be misinterpreted and get out of hands which is why rules are needed.

Just my opinion.
 
but the way long standing members where humiliated yesterday was absolutely appalling .

It was certainly the lowest point this forum has hit in all the years I've been here.

Perhaps an apology would help to clear the air?
 
My tuppence worth. There needs to be a clearer set of guidelines drawn up so that members/Mods have a better idea as to what can and cant be said. I have certainly felt there there has been one rule for some and another for others and when you try to point this out then you are sometimes threatened with a ban, which in turns means that you could harbour a grudge against that certain Mod(s). Us memebers deserve to be heard and if we feel agrieved we should be allowed to say so and why we feel we have been treated wrongly......an open and frank discussion should be allowed in order prevent further annimosity. If we are prevented from having this discussion then i'm afraid the forum could wither on the vine and be inhabited by suck ups such as those on football 365 who have to agree with mods/admin or are deleted for good.
Clear guidelines, thicker skins, freedom of speach, general courtesy amongst all - that's all it needs.
 
My tuppence worth. There needs to be a clearer set of guidelines drawn up so that members/Mods have a better idea as to what can and cant be said. I have certainly felt there there has been one rule for some and another for others and when you try to point this out then you are sometimes threatened with a ban, which in turns means that you could harbour a grudge against that certain Mod(s). Us memebers deserve to be heard and if we feel agrieved we should be allowed to say so and why we feel we have been treated wrongly......an open and frank discussion should be allowed in order prevent further annimosity. If we are prevented from having this discussion then i'm afraid the forum could wither on the vine and be inhabited by suck ups such as those on football 365 who have to agree with mods/admin or are deleted for good.
Clear guidelines, thicker skins, freedom of speach, general courtesy amongst all - that's all it needs.

Nail on the head m8
 
I am not that keen on swearing in the forums but I am put off much more by the racist, homophobic and mysogynistic tone of many posts.

There are people here from many backgrounds who have varied and diverse view points: if we all feel the need to constantly press our own particular views then all that can arise is rancour.

I wish the rules were more closely followed and applied.
 
still waiting for an avatar change

clint why do you keep popping up in posts asking about avatar a change just make a request in a new post and it will be dealt with, and upload the avatar you want. :)
 
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