I moved into my home over 13 years ago , my dad and family live on my right and my compliang neighbour on my left.
This neighbour ( i will call her pain) moved in 3 years ago now, and within 3 months she complained 'once' that my 3 month old pup ( who is now 3 )which is a small toy maltese was barking when we were out , so i asked the other neighbours if they were being disturbed and they didnt even know i had a dog! so now , when we go out , we lock him in the furthest room away from her side of the house, i also asked my dad to listen in and he couldnt hear anything.. problem solved, so we though..
2 years on, no more complaints .. Then i went out over night on a bank holiday and she complained to the council, they visited me and took one look at my do,g the tiny white ball of fluff shly hiding behind me and said she would not be taking it any further.. and that was that
A year after she moved in the 'Pain' has asked me to turn of my small garden water feaure which is a 12 inch high mushroom that trickles water from the top , as it was disturbing her at night,
she has asked us to lower the t.v ( ok surround sound was on , but my 3 small children were asleep upstatrs so it was not very loud)
Now today she confiscated my 11 year sons ball claimimg she was fed up of the ball rolling pased her window and childern playing near her home ect....
I lost my cool, showed her the 'HAND' and walked in...
i am at a loss as what to do , i dont want to fall out but god my family cant moved .. for fear of being noisey
any ideas on how to appeoch this??
thanks for listening!!
This neighbour ( i will call her pain) moved in 3 years ago now, and within 3 months she complained 'once' that my 3 month old pup ( who is now 3 )which is a small toy maltese was barking when we were out , so i asked the other neighbours if they were being disturbed and they didnt even know i had a dog! so now , when we go out , we lock him in the furthest room away from her side of the house, i also asked my dad to listen in and he couldnt hear anything.. problem solved, so we though..
2 years on, no more complaints .. Then i went out over night on a bank holiday and she complained to the council, they visited me and took one look at my do,g the tiny white ball of fluff shly hiding behind me and said she would not be taking it any further.. and that was that
A year after she moved in the 'Pain' has asked me to turn of my small garden water feaure which is a 12 inch high mushroom that trickles water from the top , as it was disturbing her at night,
she has asked us to lower the t.v ( ok surround sound was on , but my 3 small children were asleep upstatrs so it was not very loud)
Now today she confiscated my 11 year sons ball claimimg she was fed up of the ball rolling pased her window and childern playing near her home ect....
I lost my cool, showed her the 'HAND' and walked in...
i am at a loss as what to do , i dont want to fall out but god my family cant moved .. for fear of being noisey
any ideas on how to appeoch this??
thanks for listening!!