Do you ever feel down and out but don't really know why?

When im really stressed are feeling down I hit the bars and get me self a hooker are two always helps me even though you know it aint good.

Get ya self out and away from the misses at the weekends give ya self a break If you have any savings spend the fooker on partying go on a few missions.

The old saying is true you only live once.

You probably are just sick off the same old routine, I go wild every few month and It makes me feel alive again.

dont worry dont panick have some fun good luck to ya mate.

everyone gets stressed and ratty and some point in there life. fcuk it go and blow of some steam, and some slappas to blow you off while ya at it lol hee hee
 
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what jooooles really means is that you need to make sure you eat your porridge, weetabix will do failing that a banana. a lot of people go from one buzz to another, whether its sugar or gadgets what you really want is some peace. for me the best medicine is laughter so anything that has me in stitches helps. i reckon those derek and clive lp's would lift anyones mood!
 
Ive had pm's from members telling me they wanted to post their feelings but didn't want to due to members posting things like chris peters did. Nice one!
 
then chris peters is the sad git for trying to be the hard man behind a keyboard
 
I posted how I was feeling at this point in my life along with others, and in some small way hope it helped someone feeling the same to know they are not alone
comments like this spoil a thread that was going along nicely and people with simlar feeling expressing to one another

if thats not your thing then click Back or new post to navigate away from the thread that dont appeal to you

easy really ;)
 
Looking at what Jooooles and smoker said made me think you should look at getting out and going to see a comedian you like and have a few drinks to help you relax while your out chuckling at the comedian.....and then mybe finish it off with a hooker (thought i'd throw that bit in to keep Jooooles happy lol).

Laughter is the best therapy.....
 
i think it's easier to vent here where noone really knows you,sometimes friends don't understand,good friends do but good friends are hard to come by and have moved away.

i think your more off a man being able to talk about things like this,it's obvious that men are also effected and not just women,some people need to drop the hardman act or end up lonely and misunderstood
 
I’m under a lot of stress, can’t sleep, feeling down because of this on-going custody battle, i just tend to get out of the house as much as i can and keep myself occupied, my local pub only being 6 houses down helps as well :)
 
wot the hell is this thread all about ?
its like womans feckin weekly ..
Bloody go and grow a pair the lot of yers and stop feeling sorry for yerself ... theres innocent people actually dieing out there .

What a well thought through and constructive post this was! Why anyone would even go to the bother of typing such rubbish baffles me - just to get a reaction I suppose? Its just mindless!
 
i hope my words didnt come across as heartless, i dont know the details of other peoples lives here. but only know what works for me, i spoke about laughter rather than chasing a buzz that hides your feelings or puts you into a lonely place once its all worn off. i get cynical watching movies i just prefer being around people who can lift me back up. to put it into context, i have gadgets like many people here but ive happily just put the radio on as it helps me pretend im not here all by myself. we do cope better with laughter i can be sure of that as ive watched many comedies sat on my own laughing like a loony. so when ive met any mates i tend to push my influences onto them and now we just trade anything funny just to keep ourselves smiling.

I gone thru bereavements losing parents in my early 20s so being 40 now makes me feel more in tune with older people. they have a better outlook on life and always make me feel better after a good chat. we just need to make sure those we know dont sink lower as we wouldnt want that even though we might let it happen to ourselves, keeping up friendships and smiling supporting each other thru the bad times is what everyone needs. share a smile :)
 
mate i had the same symtoms , and after loads of blood tests , they found out that my testerone levels where very low. so now i take a test shot once a week and i feel a million dollars. lost a good bit a fat, sleep really well now , always in good mood and my sex drive has went through the roof. robbie williams suffered from the same thing for years now he feels great. get it checked out at your docs mate i bet you it's your test levels
 
mate i had the same symtoms , and after loads of blood tests , they found out that my testerone levels where very low. so now i take a test shot once a week and i feel a million dollars. lost a good bit a fat, sleep really well now , always in good mood and my sex drive has went through the roof. robbie williams suffered from the same thing for years now he feels great. get it checked out at your docs mate i bet you it's your test levels

Is that to do with thyroid? My mum has an underactive thyroid causes her all sorts of problems well it did till they put her on meds.

My blood glucose came back normal from the docs even though tests i did were all high lol. Still waiting for other test results.
 
I just want to say a big thanks to sargie for this post after reading this I built up the courage to go to my doctors and I have just had a full blood test. The doctor seems to think that I may have gallstones.There is nobody who you can talk to any more they just change the subject very quickly and then I grit my teeth and try to get on. Once again sargie thanks for the post and I really do hope this post continues as a medical section and peeps can discuss their medical problems and not get interrupted by the occasional di**head.
 
Nice one miggy, I think with men in particular there is very few outlets. I know some of us get a pain say in the chest or lungs or something. We just brush it aside and tell ourselfes it will go away, When It dosent all sorts start to creep into your mind, do I have cancer do I have this, the fear of the unknown then and the fear of being told you have cancer keeps us away from the doctor. It then becomes a psycological problem playing away on your mind nagging away at you. But if someone tells you they were feeling something similar you pipe up a bit and listen, its like someone throwing you a lifeline. You get to the doctor and 99% of the time its not what you think. Then the relief sets in and you continue your life. I hope the admins make this thread a sticky.
 
Nice one miggy, I think with men in particular there is very few outlets. I know some of us get a pain say in the chest or lungs or something. We just brush it aside and tell ourselfes it will go away, When It dosent all sorts start to creep into your mind, do I have cancer do I have this, the fear of the unknown then and the fear of being told you have cancer keeps us away from the doctor. It then becomes a psycological problem playing away on your mind nagging away at you. But if someone tells you they were feeling something similar you pipe up a bit and listen, its like someone throwing you a lifeline. You get to the doctor and 99% of the time its not what you think. Then the relief sets in and you continue your life. I hope the admins make this thread a sticky.
cue I have had stomach problems for two years and I keep looking things up on my computer under symptoms and its really scary to read the outcome. My prognosis by the doctor is only a guess They have found blood in my poo so they re-tested and it was fine so I really don't know what the outcome is until Friday. @Mick I really do hope you make a sticky out of this thread and call it The Medical Section and who knows you may just even save someone's life.
 
I think men on the whole don't like to moan and do just get on with it. I also think embarrasment stop us from talking about issues we have. I don't go to the doctors because they are crap they are very reluctant to do anything that costs money ie tests beyond the basics. Most of the time i only end up going because the missus makes me lol.
 
I think men on the whole don't like to moan and do just get on with it. I also think embarrasment stop us from talking about issues we have. I don't go to the doctors because they are crap they are very reluctant to do anything that costs money ie tests beyond the basics. Most of the time i only end up going because the missus makes me lol.
When I went to the doctors on Monday he asked what medication i was taking for pain. I told him I get my own from the chemist and that way I do not need to come and see you. He said that was a good idea. Now that is not what I wanted to hear. So from now on I need to try and cure myself and go to the doctors as a last resort.That is what he really meant. Is this the future of modern practitioners?.
 
When I went to the doctors on Monday he asked what medication i was taking for pain. I told him I get my own from the chemist and that way I do not need to come and see you. He said that was a good idea. Now that is not what I wanted to hear. So from now on I need to try and cure myself and go to the doctors as a last resort.That is what he really meant. Is this the future of modern practitioners?.

I think it all boils down to money in the end m8 which is wrong. My doctors is a training one, you often have to see a junior doctor and then wait to see a real doctor just to tell him your symptoms all over again. Another reason why i don't bother going.

My doctors misdiagnosed my mums stomach ulcers and gallstones as ibs. He misdiagnosed my sisters eptopic pregnancy as ibs too. He told my wife she did not have early cerivcal cancer, and a guy i used to work with had to pay for his own mri scan £500 as they refused to.

People tell me to switch doctors but they are all the same in my area it's worse since they merged into medical centres.
 
I think it all boils down to money in the end m8 which is wrong. My doctors is a training one, you often have to see a junior doctor and then wait to see a real doctor just to tell him your symptoms all over again. Another reason why i don't bother going.

My doctors misdiagnosed my mums stomach ulcers and gallstones as ibs. He misdiagnosed my sisters eptopic pregnancy as ibs too. He told my wife she did not have early cerivcal cancer, and a guy i used to work with had to pay for his own mri scan £500 as they refused to.

People tell me to switch doctors but they are all the same in my area it's worse since they merged into medical centres.

We have a doctor in our surgery and he is terrible he bosses you about and makes you feel ten times worse than what you are and then he cannot wait to write a prescription out before you have finished telling him what's wrong. That is the last time I went to see him and he is still there. What has happened to good old fashioned listening to patients and showing a bit of interest after all he is getting paid to do that. Sorry about the little rant sargie its just that I find the whole post fascinating and I really do hope it can be made into a medical section for genuine people to post their symptoms and problems or even just a medical chat.
 
wot the hell is this thread all about ?
its like womans feckin weekly ..
Bloody go and grow a pair the lot of yers and stop feeling sorry for yerself ... theres innocent people actually dieing out there .

aarrgghhh.pmsl.
i didnt write this guys im really sorry!
My son been watchin my dogs i have been working away bloody hell i will kill him.
 
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