ffs can this world get any fecking worse ??
i posted on here about a situation before and yes some of the points i can understand
well things got a little worse now i got the ex on my case and to add to the ex giving me crap,the oldest daughter and my son causing lots of crap it now looks like me and my gf who i think the world of are going to split and it is not because we dont get on we get on really really good
we cant live together as her kids and my 2 eldest dont get on and not only that her landlord is a jerk and dont do any work to the place and she might be evicted at any time
she has had to take on another job which involves weekends to help survive which leaves us no time and we will not see each other down to every 2 weekends but with her working we wont see each other very much even when we do go up
i cant get a move closer ( we live 70 mile apart ) no job - her council says after sept they are not taking anyone from outside their area- cant go private as we cannot meet the requirements or they dont accept people on benefits
what a fecking way to live life fecking pishes me off life is crap and then you get shite on even more
and just so you know none of the situation both me and my gf find ourselves in are created by us it was created by our ex's
rant over dont feel any better feck it

Sometimes today's crock of shoite looks better tomorrow, sometimes summat just comes up and it sorts itself out. Yeah, and sometimes it's still shoite at the end of the week.

Keep looking and I'll keep my fingers crossed you find a way...

Best of luck M8

How old are your oldest kids I am sorry mate but life goes on don't let the kids rule you.

Originally Posted by miggy

How old are your oldest kids I am sorry mate but life goes on don't let the kids rule you.

boy is 13 girl is 15 and the pair are a fecking nightmare

Originally Posted by dont do it it"ll hurt

boy is 13 girl is 15 and the pair are a fecking nightmare

Both of the kids need to realise that you have a life just as much as they have. Tell them that they all have to move on and that you enjoy the company of your new GF. You cannot be expected to be at there beck and call now they are not babies any more. You are having a really bad time this year mate and I sincerely hope you can work something out.